Thursday, August 23, 2007

relationships?

Nowadays relationships are not at all like they once we're. Kids are becomming serious at the age of 12 and are in love after the first week. The words "I love you" are flying around like "Hello" or "Goodbye" and no longer possess any significant meaning. When I watch older movies, or look at old photo albums with my grandparents of their drive-in dates or sock hop pictures, I can see how much more people actually meant to eachother. You can see it in their eyes they over time they have fallen in love and only wish to be with one other. They support each other in each own's basic interests and needs, they sit down and have dinner together, they communicate. And it's not by means of a text, an e-mail, or a message on myspace, it's in person. Talk about ANNOYING. I feel like if you want a meaningful relationship you need to live 10 years ago. So many people rely on all of these methods of communicating that nothing ever comes across right and words get twisted and it ends up in one big mess. Not to mention the internet allows other people to look into your life and follow your every move. I feel like facebook stalks my life and 90 year old people are always looking at my myspace. Nothing is safe or sacred anymore. If something happens in your life the whole world could know in minutes. Two way relationships are now 34 ways because every single one of your friends seems to have a say and are willing to talk about personal matters with your significant other that YOU should be talking to them about. Whatttever not like life isn't already a mess.

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